If your communication is not understood by your audience. It is rarely the fault of the audience.
It is much like those 'super intellectual' people that cannot communicate to less intelligent individuals. If someone has a truly powerful intellect it is child's play to communicate effectively to those with less intelligence.
That is demonstrably false. I know some extremely intelligent people who cannot communicate with those who are less intelligent.
Regardless of the falsehood above, it is oftentimes the fault of both parties. The sender and receiver. That's what I have bfn taught for years in communications and it's what I'm sticking with.
Seeing as it was a joke, I'm not really concerned about it. Tone is difficult to express and y'all might have read it without any humour at the time. No harm done.
If your plan is to argue and lay blame upon someone, then just know I'll have no part in it. If it was politics or something, then sure, we could argue over the internet and carry on. I stick with my original statement above, perhaps even more so now

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